Another topic on Sex, Girls & our culture….Well, here what exactly i want to say, what is Sex, how important it is, how big it, how precious it is..???? Sex, of course is a part and parcel of our lives….no one can avoid it…….but when we think about our daughters, our sisters we r little scared, thinking of their protection in terms of Sex, that no wild man should break the social boundaries and if that happen, then everything will be vanished, your status, girls life, girls Currier, she will not get a good man to marry etc. etc……..Every parent will have that fear for their daughters, sisters, girls etc… and its very obvious also…our culture is such that, which makes us obvious to think about it………..
Then if i will talk about a foreigner girl, might be at the age of 20, she will visit all over the world, completely alone, completely fearless……….How, Why ???? these r very common questions that can come in mind…….r they not girls or what made them, going anywhere fearless…………?????? Yes, many of you might got the answer………..Yes, they don’t take Sex as huge thing, or it is pap etc..etc…..for them its very general thing, anyone can have it at anytime, with how many that also doesn’t matter to them…..not require that all the girls who go on world toor etc. had lost their virginity ( in fact who can say that, who is vergin and who is not ) then only they could move out…………No, coz for them, its not a big thing, so if they will feel like having it, then they will or else not….
so why i am telling this……Coz, i wanted to tell you the diffrence….and I will not give my personal opinion here, and left to you, how you want to broad up your child….as in our country, if you try to given them freedom, that can be dangerous too, but if you want to give your daughter a feerless life and can enjoy her life to the fullest, and at the same time valuing our culture then special attention need to be given to them…….as without that u can not be a good parent, and at any stage, if any such un-expected things happen to them, you need to be stand with them and strengting them…instead of thinking about your status, her life, her carrier….u need to be just stand by them (and more you can read my another article Sex,Love & Rape, all r same, but difference only in involvence) …….
You know, everyone become parents, as the biological cyle has to go, but what you do , how do you do in all your work, that will decide what you r, and what you can do….so, if you have the confidence, take some challenges, rest depends on you, as it could be little chanllenging !!