Differences

Today I am going to discuss about difference between men and women.

From the childhood, if you had observed a girl child would like to have dolls, and keep her  safely as her close  friend, play with her etc., then if I talk about a boy child, generally they will buy guns, bike, vehicles  etc. they would play with them and break them soon.

Why I told this difference and started with child, coz no one tell them what type of toys they should have, but the difference is created by nature.

When they grow a little old, when the girl spend time with her mom in home while the boy go out and play badly, when parents try to beat the boy for his mistakes girl try to save the boy (brother).

Now, when I talk about food, by nature men need  more food than women, but need to share here, the girl child tend to share food with others  boy, girl  (brother or sister) while the boy doesn’t think much about others.

At the instances of their love (often) girl helps her brother or sister to get married to their love partners but in case of boys (often), when they came to know about someone love her sister or daughter, they will beat/injure/kill the boy and would try to make him away from her life…

After marriage (often) she love her husband, think to save money for family, try to give the best education to child, all together she is engaged with her emotional bonding towards with others and is constructive while (often) men tend to earn, earn and earn, think less about family, spend money on destructive things  like drinking smoking etc.

Conclusively you can say that a girl (often) is balanced, emotional and constructive while  a boy (often) is destructive from the childhood and when they grow adult one become stronger and a kind of destructive.

Now a very important thing I would like to discuss, when the women is made attractive, emotional,  soft, sexy etc  WHY nature made them less stronger than men ? ?  And you know what, beauty is always danger, whether it’s a living or non living thing, anyone tend to get them with or without their will. And coz of being less strong physically than men she is unable to protect her by own and many a times they depend on their dad, brother, friend, husband  etc. to save her and the truth is they can not be with them for 24/7.

Now a question to nature, your god, why they made such difference…why they made the destructive men stronger and the constructive women less strong?? Why, Why ??

Maa..Mother.. A most lovely word in the world

Maa.. Mother…A most lovely word in the world..

 

All of us love this word..we think of love,sacrifice,giver etc.. when we think of this word..

 

A women is a born to be a mother.. i am talking about feelings (Mamta in hindi) ……not to deliver a baby..

 

Now from feeling, i mean the feeling for good for other….it could be her own child, it could be someone else child,it could be her parents,siblings, spouse……it could be her friends, her lover, her love towards an animal like dog,cat,cow etc.

 

Now, bigger her feelings, big is a mother inside her…i mean she will be mother for everyone..she will love everyone, she will be happy to see everyone happy..she will be happy with everyone’s growth……she will give her own bite of food, even to an stronger, a beggar, an animal (mostly to dog)..

 

 

Now is a man, a mother..????? yes, the way, i explianed above…yes, off course if we talk about feelings…..a feeling for well being of others, a feeling to see others happy, a feeling to sacrifice n-number of things, for others happiness……Yes, even a man can be big mother inside…..                                                Now, if we talk about delivering a baby…..yes very true…can not only make any woman a mother….i am talking about feelings…for example a woman,deliver a baby, and leave him/her on the stairs of temple…a woman deliver a baby, and sell her child to get some money, a woman deliver a baby with any kind of her expectations to be full-filled….she is not  a mother…though, she delivered a baby, but she is not a mother….

 

Yes, i have covered the major things already…the most important thing, i am going to tell now is….everyone should have a mother inside him/her…. bigger is the mother inside, bigger is the love for others and definitely…….u r more responsible towards others…as other will expect for ur love, affection, guidance etc…!!@@##@@!!

What is Love ?? Question remain Question Mark (??)

When Last November ( November 2011) , I was going to Goa..on the journey,

 

Suddenly I started asking these questions ::

What is Love ??

Do we truly Love anyone ??

How many of us, could truly love anyone ??

Whom can we love the most…etc.. etc.. ???

 

 

And you the answers were like ::

When we enter in our ( girl / boy ) teenage…due to our hormones secretions….naturally we are attracted towards our opposite sex (not including the exceptions ) ….. and we tend to fall in love…

Then when we get someone, or say someone has accepted us, his/her girl fried  or boyfriend….then we feel like over the moon…we keep on speaking our partner for as much as we can…we think of them…as much as possible….every song seem like, narrating ur study…… u start speaking with the stars, moon etc…..Ur life become very happy…

This type of feeling u get first at ur teenage…i am very sure, all of us like someone, at that period of life….no matter whether our partner love us or not…..

That time ( first time) we were kid or child for love….and u know what, child does everything from there heart….so that love or feeling was also from their heart….. Often we say, we can not forgot our first love …. that was the reason….coz, that time, you were so innocent, your feelings were so true……that you could not think of yourself , rather you thought of your partners wellness…his or her happiness………..

When ur feelings are for others….that’s pure love….

I would tell you a phrase that I read an year back that ::

U can give without Love

But you can never love without giving !!

 

Have you all saw your mom ? what she does ? she is just giving her love to you, your bro, sis, dad everyone….That’s Love…..

 

 

Now, I will move on to the next Stage of Life……i.e.. what if, you don’t get a true partner at you first relation ? or you broke up with your partner, due to any reason……………..But you are an adult now, naturally, you would require a partner to standby you, to support you emotionally, to satify your sexual needs, to help you financially etc………. and will look for them……..

 

But this time, what happened that…..you just gave a name “Love” for someone, whom you are expecting, to satisfy all these things……….

You say to public, you love your partner or husband or  wife……but do you think that you truly love your partner….?? If yes, then why U kept those conditions, in your mind……

 

You say, I love her/him….but the fact is, you need someone…who can standby you…in your failure…..he/she can emotinally support you….. when u r emotionally broke up….by fighting for your Currier, with society with parents….could be anything…….

 

You say, I love my girlfriend / boyfriend or husband/ wife….but the fact is, you need someone to have sex……and the socialized term you gave…is i love him or her…or we are husband or wife….

There is nothing wrong, if someone is having sex…thats body requirement…..but as i am talking about ” Do u truly love anyone…..So the Question still remain Question mark ……

Whenever u r keeping any condition for love……that time your not following your heart …….u r following your mind…..so things can not be purely from your heart…….as we seen in our first love….in our teenage……

 

Now, a most important question with all of u :::

We often say, i love my partner more than my life bla…bla..bla…

But the answer is no one can love, anyone more than loving himself/ herself…

let me clarify……””” we all love ourselves the most.””….

How, reasons, given above already..

 

 

YES, when you love from your heart…no involvement of your mind….i mean no condition for love…….no expectation for your love…coz, as i am loving my partner..even he/she should love me or any other condition….that’s called true love… for example…all of us, heard about  “” Meera and Krishna Love Story “”….

 

 

 

Why, I explained it to you…..i know most of the people are just crowd….they just following, what they have been……

suppose, a married woman.. deliver a baby….coz, that her body requirement or socialised requirement…..she broad up her child….and when child mature…..that time all her motherhood finish….she would expect her child to get a good job, good wfe….so that she can live her old age easily…

 

In fact these days, most of the woman, don’t even do breast feeding to her child.. coz she is more concerned about looking young…maintaining good figure….. then why she delivered her baby….one could be her body requirement …..as until she deliver her first kid…..every month she is going to have stomach pain while her mensuration period…..

other thing, could be, if you don’t deliver a baby, then society will say, u r not fertile ( Banz in hindi )….so u r concerned about your society…..

Another thing, could be, u deliver a  baby , as you are frustrated with your husband’s activities, and you feel happy, by seeing ur kid smiling and growing…..((specially, this is a huge problem in our country, in case of arrange marriage, where husband and wife are not compatible to each other but they drag their marriage, coz of parents, kids, society, traditions etc….God Horrible ))

when these many conditions, you have in your mind, then how come you will love your child….

Why I gave mom’s example……whom we believe, that, they love their child the most…..but how many of them are truly ?????

Its not so easy to be a true mom…………just delivering a child and broad him/her up is not just motherhood….. its much more than that…(( if i talk, in terms of spirituality….then  abandent mediation, worships you will have to do, if you want to become a true mom…..there , now i am not even going……))

Yes, since I took, woman’s example….that does not mean, that Men…love everyone truly…..Women are far more ahead of Men…When it come to love someone…..

Yes, why I took mom’s example……coz, i wanted to talk about  “”Love ” in that context….which is pure and from heart…no conditions etc…

Most of the people are just being the crowd…and follow what they have told so far…so this article is not for them, they can follow whatever they have been….

 

This article is for those few crazy people, who have been doing lot of expirements with their life and was seeking such information….they might got many of their answers, which were question marks for them till date………….     !!**::**!!

Transition- A story of a man !

Transitions:- A story of a Man, who had wittenessed of various changes in his life, and his learning from them..

 

When he close his eyes, and go back to his chilhood, he find himself, a boy growing between the arms of naturein a far away place of our country, which was once used to known as Kalapani, now the beautiful andaman islands.

 

 

As like billion others, he born in a middle class family. He was the youngest child of his parents, with 2 elder sisters, 1 elder brother,Dad doing a govt. job, and of course mom-home maker, was more into devotional things, like worshiping god for around 10-12 hours in a day.

 

 

With mom’s debotional narure, everybody in the family, got that devide things inside, oh i mean love, affection etc. And in the shade of dad- a really cool person.which every child feel love to have…With all many good things, they too had many ups and down in their life, from which he (I mean, about whom the story is being written).    From his childhood, he had a different type of positive energy, having fun, entertaining, loving others, and getting loved from others etc..Be different, do diferent, do something good before leaving the worl was the keyword of life. And that’s the thought, which brought him all the way from Andaman to the fast city Mumbai.He finished his education in the islands, then he moved out to one of the IT city bangalore. He started working there in one of the IT gian of our country. His life was setteled there,if we think from a common man’s life’s prospect. But he realized that, that was not the work he came to do here in this world.      He moved to the glamour city, Mumbai, doing something good into the film industry. And as like million others who get cheated by the cheaters here, because of the intrasperacy of the film/tv industry.    But he did not lost his hope, as the decesion he had taken was not easy, the time (Recession) billion and billions of people across the globe was afraid of saving their jobs, he left a jobfrom one of the IT giant of our country. He knew that life will not be as easy, as it seems to be, but he was ready to explore everything. And this was not an easy task for any common human beings.

 

 

He came to the city, and joined another job in an IT company which was very easy for him with a good salary. But that was not the work for which he moved to the city, when he did not hear from the people(fraud)who was invloved, when he moved to the city, he left that job too,..and jumped into media, to explored the things, he came to know the very boottom things. He realised the distance he need to cover.     He did a hindi music album too. And joined a job, for the time being, thinking that once the album is released, his life will come to the track, he wanted to go on. But unfortunately, the album was never released,he waited for couple of months, and in a way how days, became week, week became months and moths turned to year he couln’t realied the time. Was just doing his job, what any common man can do, and waiting for the good, thatthe album to be released. But as said, it never released. So it became around 2 years now, since he moved to the city. In fact he was waiting if any miracle that can happen, as he had Jupiters Cycle in his life for two years,   so thought, let me explore, what’s the miracle going to happen that, i will get jobs in media, as the things which he was trying for more than year, so when it doesn’t happen, what will happen, in that jupiter cycle.

 

 

He waited for an year and was trying to things from his side for an year, but things didn’t truned on. He realised no one else is going to do anything, he had to help himself, no fate, no god, totally himself, no one else. And once he establish him many will come behind him. He started thinking of starting a business, which is not a play of child in a city like mumbai.  He thought to leave his job, and do the business, so that he can earn well and can fiance for his own meadia project down the line. And fianlly he did, as he thought. But unfortunatly as said, it will not be play of child, to do anything here.It was a really tough work for him, to focus only on service, instead of just making profits.

And here another important tourning point in his life, he used to life in as paying guest with few others boys, trying into media. And one fine day, a punjabi guy came to my room as my roommate in that paying guest hostel. He is also those people,who had done lots and lots of experimets with their life, with the same dreams in his eyes, to do something good in the film industry.  I still remeber the 1st day, when he came to my life, we just itroduced ourselves, and was just talking to get to know each other better, but that turned a long conversation. 1st time in mumbai, i shared a lot of my personal stories, ups and down in life,tough times etc., even he did…and in that day, in between he answered/told few things, a person like me was in search for, reagarding god, thoughts, dream analysis and few sprital things. He might told those things to many people, but since there was an learning attitude with him, he learned those things……Great, he found someone good in strange city…..

And in one fine day, after lots of tensions in his life, business running slow, dream is getting late, family (parents) pressure to come back to islands etc. etc….he thought of sitting for meditations, and he did, and suddenly he got the answer that read the book ” Mein Mrituin Sikhata Hun, by Osho ” ….after meditation, i opened the book, which was kept from a long time, and started reading few pages, for a day and two he covered the 1st few lessions. And belive me friends, it was just awesome, the answers he was looking for…He realized that he will get many more answers, in that book, but he thought he will read the whole later, as thats going to take time, and he had to first look for his bread and butter. He started working for his business again with great enthusiam,and in a was around 5-6 months, he was going to his native, the Andaman Islands. So he was going by ship from chennai. And it was 3 days ship journey so he took the book to read, and he finished the book on the ship, below the sky, on the sea, between the air, which he called late THE NATURE or THE GOD…..after reading the book, he found many-many answers to his questions, which he percepted of in his life. He reached his home, he removed his pearl ring (gifted by a sage) from his finger, removed his 1 mukhi rudraksh, tabees (gifted by his mom) from his neck, tajar suraksha kawach (gifted by his sister)..and put them in the temple in his home….He thought, he will explore everything whatever going to happen after that, but the best thing nothing happened, he was as he was earlier. So what was the difference, those perl, rudraksh, najar suraksha kawach made in his life, NOTHING….so why he kept those things for these many days, because he was not knowing the truth of life…he was just following, what his parents tought him, thing these worshipping god is a good habit, so just maintain the good habits, whether anything good or bad doesn’t matter….

But now he got the answer, he still belive god, but instead of finding them on temple, he found him evrywhere, insteading to going to temple, in morning and evening, he did the worship everymoment, from any where, any time…just closed the eyes, and talked to them……he started liking his new adventours,he came back to mumbai, and his personal wooden temple, which he used to worship daily, he donated to his neighbour with the Bhagvat Geeta, he used to read a lession on every staurday, for last 12-13 years……he liked the life more…as he know now, that no stones, no rudraksh, no tabish with him, so whatever happen to himis just because of him, no body else is involved in that way……though there were many tough days, for business, used to mediate and got such answers, which a common man can never understand in his life…..fianally, he explored his business for an year, and thought, he need to have a fixed income too, as to establish his busineesit might take some long time…so with the job, in his life, he can live at least like a common man, doing 10-7 jobs, get married, have kids etc……so that, he can explore the others things al least which majority of the crown explored……he joined a night shift job, working for US MNS….so that during day, he can focus on business too..   When he joined his job, he wanted to just spend time with his GOD THE NATURE, as the kind of peace he used to get was just unbeliveable, instead of chit chatting with friends…but again, the amount of time, that he used to get was comparitively very small..then he thought of doing meditations, but he was not getting time….As after night shift, during day he was sleeping and evening again go to company…….so he wanted to just run out of the place, but he couldn’t, as he knew there r many responsiblities also…….it was over six months, since he did not sit for meditation etc……………

Here he get the idia, how a common man, go for 10-7 job, bussy in day to day activity doing worships blindly, invloved in day to day activity, can never get time to experiment with his/her life, and just stay away from those answers which one should know, and finally die in a very common way, for few days, his family will cry and then they will be bussy with their life…….

..He also realied that in good our good time we can not remember our god but at bad times we just run towards our god to get the piece…..because when i got job, i am happy in terms of, i get food, cloths, shelter easily, as end of the month u get salary, but we did not has job, running for each and every day for bread and butter, that time only i could do these experiments, i could move toward my god ……!!

Waon this is the theme/conclusion of transition……….The things he realized/ exploredin his life, he knows only, is just amazing……………..he is happy that he is doing good these days, he went to his native, did some seva to parents, wanted to serve his cool-cool dad, who was always with him, though he was thousands of miles away from him physically,, but he was a good friend of him, he used to share evrything with him…today he was feeling sense of relaxations, that finally he did somthing for his parents too…..Today like a common man, doing a job, he moved, much-much ahead and soon he would be able to take up his business too….once business is up, many more things would turn then………….!!!!!

Though there were not much fiancial gain, he realied the intelectual gain, in this transitional period, and he is thakful to his god, that he could realied all these, which rarely anyone realize, which takes one up, Today he was thakful to his god, that they put him to such circumstances where he could learn all thease, now he can do wonders in business,he can do fantastic work in film industry, he can do amaing things to many good things (which i will not discuss now), if he would had become an actor at the first instance itself, then probalbly he would had lots of name and fame just in meida, but these things, he could never understand because just like the same common man with 10-7 job, he would had become busssy with his acting works, he could neaver realie the need for them, and these things not be realied !!!!!!!!!

Sweat, Innocence & our Personality

Waon, when we talk about sweets, our tongue started wetting…

 

And when we talk about children, every child like sweets (hardly u may find any exceptions) …. and gradually when they start growing,  they prefer to drink alcohols, they do smoke etc..etc..that time if someone offer them sweets, they would say,” oh common am i a kid or what ??.. When they grow up, they would go to party, drink alcohols which is absolutely bitter in taste…. many may find it difficult to drink alcohols, due to its bitter taste….they then take it with side dishes, complements etc… finally they may end up vomiting, but u know what ? still they think, they have done something misterious…….they proudly say it, i had finished these many bottles of bear/whiskey/otka whatever…………………………                                                 Now tell me what milestone u achived by vomiting after drinking ??? Why not realize the truth.. that your body, can not intake it, that’s why, it was automatically thrown out by your body, to maintain its internal biological systems … but still people don’t understand the reality, they just doing it blindly, because others are doing it…because others say, what man, r u man ?Common grow up, u r no longer kid, forget about sweets, come lets drink-smoke, lets enjoy…..some may say, u r my friend, then prove it, come drink with me….do u think, drinking with the other person, can prove ur friendship ??? Big Questionmark ???                    If I talk about girls, then even they have started drinking, following men, thinking that, when men can enjoy, then why not we ??          I would share an instance, When  was in College in Port Blair, i met one of my school friend( girl), after long time, who came to Chennai for pursuing her graduation..so she was staying in Girls Hostel…..there she got chance to drink along with her other friends, in the hostel………so when she met me, while talking, she said very happily that Friend, ” I drink beer…           I told her, it might was very tasty  , suddenly her expressions change, said….Chii…..kya kadua (bitte)……..I said, why u were jumping with happy….saying I drak beer………suddenly  her expressions again changed, an unexpected happen…..coz, she might thought, that i will appreciate that, as being a girl, u drank…waon…                        But nothing as such, she was looking at me surprisingly, then I told her…listen, there is nothing, in drinking alchol, it is bitter, hard to intake…then why not u accept that, realize that…..why do u following others…..when u urself drank, u came to know that, this is just bull shit…..what people say, i drank and i bang on someone, i danced, i had hard sex, i did something of the other etc..etc………I told her, what happen, when u drink, ur patela in Brain is disbalanced for sometime..and while walking, u can not walk stright……ur listening skills go a little low, people will have to be louder to make u listen their words, and in the same way u speak loudly with others, as u don’t know that ur listening skills went down…..then if u sit somewhere, u feel like everything around u like sky, stars, etc..etc.. is rotating….and u feel like laying down in the same process of those rotation…and once u lay down, u fall sleep, hardly in a matter of 3-5 minutes..and once u slept, u sleep like anything, u have no senses of whats happenning around u….i mean u sleep very well…..then on next day, u empty ur stomach during nature call..as alchol boost ur digestive systems……….Nothing more than that….these were my personal realization…..several time I drank to explore,what it is…..why the entire world is crazy about it…..?? why the crowd says, after drinking, feel like, flying in the sky…feeling like the king….forget ur sad life etc…..but…but…but believe me friends, all are just crabs….nothing else…….Coz, i myself relize the truth, then why should i listen to others…..I had not left it experimenting it, at this stage…..I asked, at least 20-25 friends of mine, who boose regularly…..I asked the same question to them, that what happen, after drinking….I told my above expierence and asked if u had expierenced something differently ??? they all said, no………….                I explored it, i knew it…I came back to my real taste…..as I mean sweets…usually, in a week i go to any sweet stall and eat some sweets…as I love them…….why should I have alchols, which i don’t like…..???                    Will share another instance, when I came to Bangalore, and joined my first job….the very first day, my room mates brought some beer to celebrate….I said, u guys please enjoy, i will have the side dishes….getting a job, does not mean…its compulsary that u should drink……in fact, when i don’t like such a bitter taste, then why should I…??? … I told them, if u think, if the drink with you, that will proove our friendship…then I don’t want to proove it…..but in future, if i find u having hard time, then definitely u might find me around, helping u………………..If u think, drink is the proof for manhood….Man should drink it….the also, I don’t want to proof it, but when time will come, u would come to know about my strengths…….they got the answer, and they never ask me for the same..                              Many people, by just seeing me, come to know that i don’t drink or smoke….they ask..u don’t somke, drink right ?? i say, yes….and tell them…..(Mithen Logo ko Mithi Chije Pasand Hoti hein..) means sweat people like sweats….

 

I used to think, that why should I damage my kidney, liver by having alcohols..why should i accumulate -ve energy or will loose +ve energy…..rather I will have fruit, vegetables etc….in this way, I will accumulate +ve energy  which will strength me….and at times, when life ask u to take the challenges….that time you should have +ve proportion of enegy with you to bang on… I did everything, I drink, i smoke to experience it….and found nothing special, or interesting….rather I found, people are blindly in-taking them, as they see others are taking them….and in short period of time they get use to it…i mean they become habituated to it…..and u might realized that, when something become ur habit, then ur brain( the biggest gamer) make you to be with that……..let me explain you……..women, watch TV serials….how they are habituated to each episodes, and if one day, they miss one episode, they feel so bad about it……if u love someone, u habituate to speak to that person, seeing that person….if u like someone’s smile, and u habituate to that, no matter what ur mood is, say angry,sad etc.. u feel happy as soon as you see that smile…………Yes, this is what, game of brain…..making you habituate for things…..yes, brain is a gamer, and you become habituate naturally, then why not you habituate to good things, as i said, about love smile, other good things.??….why do u habituate to bad things ???                       I don’t know why ?? the entire world is moving towards bad things blindly….why cannot they realize what is good or what is bad..???         Now, again I will come to sweets things, from where I began, as I said above that children like sweets…they would never compromise eating sweets…..can you relate it logically…..coz, children are innocent…..they don’t know the bad side of human thoughts…..that’s why they are sweet and they like sweet…                   You might observe that, many elder people…often women or better say it, soft or (naturally) beutifull women they also like sweets…..have you ever realizes, why..??…coz, they grew up physically, but mentally they are as innocent as child, they are as sweet as child…..and that explain their taste, their personality etc…with their cute,sweat smile others feel very good…….they are the people, whom one can trust,…….even the person who drink alcohol, with someone whom he/she asked to prove their friendship by drinking with them….at times, he/she will suspect them, that this bewda( drunker) might do something wrong…..  so everyone will trust the innocent who are sweat,innocent,trustworthy…..   If I talk about innocent people, they are the ones who are close to god, or you can say god is innocence…or all the right things…one more example….once Jesus was asked, who get God, he replied, people who are like innocent kids….                             Ample of examples are given, now its your turn whether you understand it or not…if you like it follow it, or else you can do, what u have been doing **@@**!

why ghost r found in night, in jungles, in lonely places ??

All the way from big forest of Andaman and Nicobar Islands to various cities of country. Today i am able to differentiate it, why ghost or horror is in night, in forest/jungle or in lonely places ?

When I was in islands, the population was comparatively negligible than any of the cities of country, darkness is more coz street light r less, big big trees, huge forest area and you r alone……….u r scared, that u r alone, u heard of so many ghost stories, lost of pictures of ghost r in mind….u started getting scared, that time, u might see any big tree or any big stone or anything, in night if there is no light and you create some picture and think that’s the ghost you saw, you can not dare to go and check, whats actually there…..and possibly you find nothing in most of the instances…

Even you are in your home, but if no one else there, you get scared like anything, that this is the time ghost will come and will kill you….in your home (its the same home, where you live in all other days, other r there with you, so no ghost attack and if you r alone, then ghost will attack on you)….  what all thoughts we have for them….

So many people will tell you so many things, i was kid…my mom gave me at least 3-4 tabize, 1 ek mukhi rudraks, najar suraksha kawach etc……..even i used to belive on all those things when i was there…..was scared of ghost also…but again in my life dared to check various places which people call haunted places….and scared to go alone at night……..i said, i will go there, as i used to think that if there is something like ghost i would like to see them……if they do not harm me, and i have the energy to come back safe, then i will come back, or else if they kill me or die because of fear then no other option, but whatever it is, i will explore and i will go there at night……..and belive me friends, though i was scared inside that anything can happen to me but i went and cam back safely, nothing happened to me, my confidence level were boosted…. and i had practiced similar things in many instances and not even a single night i could see or expierience any such things…..still there were fear inside, as it could not go so easily and in fact why the fear was, not knowing the reason that time…but i had the confidence now, that i can go anywhere and nothing will happen.

 

then i moved to bangalore, then i moved to mumbai and various small- small cities in country. In cities population is more, everywhere you will find crowd, lights and you know what, ghost don’t come in crowded places or in light…………?????? or it is something created by our mind…????????? I think in last 5 years, i forgot about ghost etc. unless someone talk to me about them…..I asked myself why ghost is more in night, in loneliness, in rural places, in forest…no one had ever saw any ghost during day, or when they r with others ????????? and in that was i found my answers that………its all plays of our brain, from our childhood, so many stories r told to us, when a kid don’t like to have food, their parents give them some fear facts…..and in many other ways we try to tell them about ghost etc….and we ourselves create so many images of  them and the fear fact is within…………

And an year back during my transitional phase I had realized all these things and when i went to my native, i gave my tabize, rudraksh etc. on our temple in our home…….coz, nothing else is with me now and whatever happen to me, its just coz. of me, not for anything else….and again i went to some of those places at night (without those tabize and rudraksh etc.), yes little bit of nervousness was still there, but was ready to face whatever come in front of me..and believe me things r perfect so far….

And few weeks back, in my office one girl was talking about ghost in Nalasopara, Virar ( litttle away from the mumbai city, lonely places , forest etc r there), that there is some chudail, come in ladies costumes and cut the heads of anyone going alone from some lonely or jungle area there………i was smiling inside, thinking, if ghost kill anyone, how come others know about that, does the dead body tell them the story or some miracle happened that someone came to know about the mysterious thing that happened…..its just the rumors have been spread out that, since that the jungle no women can dare to go there, how come any women can kill anyone there……coz., of these superstitions, there r few people (I would call them devils) among us, who r doing such activities and what we think…????

Now so many examples, i have given, still people would think………..no, all that said above, is fine………………but if god is there, then devils r also there…………..fine you r thinking correctly……….but my friend, neither you know how god is, how do they look like, then how will you know about devils..????…………..you never ever realized what you r, then how will you analyze what is god or what is devil………….in very short, everything in this universe is a form of energy………you r also a form of energy, sun,moon,sea,sky, air everything…..till the time u r alive a different form of energy is within you, and when you die the form of energy change………now enough of examples, more elaborate (on god) i will do, in some other article…..!!!!

Live like Bird- Girls !!

Many years back when i was in college, one of my lecturer who almost forgot to smile, as she was a senior lecturer in college, so she had to be strict…but god has gifted me some good skills which helped me to bring a lots of smile to her life…..

When i was completing my final year, i told to her, Be like a Bird,” do whatever you want to do, go wherever you want to go, eat whatever you want to eat, give some time to yourself…Coz, in a way to think about society, child, husband, wife, mom, dad etc..etc…we forget to live our own life, we forget what we actually like….we give time to everyone, but we forgot to give time to ourselves….

Sit with yourselves at least for 1/2 an hours to 2-3 hours…coz that time, u r only there, that’s ur time and in a way, when you spend time with your self you will get answers to many questions you have and believe me you will love it..

Yes, once again friends fly like a bird, without any boundaries, reach the sky, go wherever u want.Feel the freedom.

Reviews of Sea Biscuit : Movie.

The movie is about the adventure of horse….who had some physical problems..due to which he was lazy when he was very young….one day, a business man or sports man what u call them, who run their horses on race.. though the horse was lazy, but he bought him, brought him to his place..                                  Later he started training him for races, but the horse could not make it…he used to loose the game..after few months, the owner noticed, a person (the hero of the movie : spider man), whos behaviour was similar to the horse…                       The Owner, hired him as his horse rider….Yes, here the story began, the hero understood the physical problems of the horse, he used to love him….he used to talk to him….while practicising the race, he used to make him take the race at exact timimg and the horse started winning all the races..                 The Horse broke all the records..and made many new records…and for him,  the owner earned name,fame and money….and finallly  in the entire movie the most important words that he said for the horse, for which i wrote this article and wanted to share with you friends…..He said..                          “”” It was not we who had choosen him, it was he who had choosen us..”””                 A very short but very good morale from the movie wanted to share with you all that, never under-estimate anyone, a;ways find the good things, and belive me you will get good results..                 Second thing, with understanding, love, affection and hard work one can win anything….            Third thing, if your rider ((could be your parents, husband or wife, brothers or sisters, friends,lover)) is good….i mean the person who is responsible for you, then you can win anything….                Yes, here you are, get the right things, do the right things and belive me…u r the winner…u Will win…**@@!!

Ghar ki Murgi Dal Barabar !!!

We  all heard this phrase, !! Ghar ki Murgi Dal Barabar !!. And now you are wondering, we all hear this, then what i am going to write by relating it.  Yes, my friends, i will first start with its meaning……..Why ghar ki Murgi Dal Barabar ? Why ? coz…the answer is, what we have with us, after sometime, we get bore of it, coz everyday having the same thing, who will like ? no one…..and we tend to, have something else out…..no matter, how good the murgi (chicken) is in your home, you still think of tasting  al (Pulses) outside…….

In a similar way, when a boy and girl is not married….they r just lover or trying to get each other……until they get them completly, could be emotionally, physically…they would try to get like crazy freak………and once they get each other completely ( often after marriage, ur partner is with you 24/7) ur interest goes down on her/him…..now your brain start working toward self esteem need……..means you have this, now get something else…….its very natural, that’s why even if, you r married to someone, still you get attracted to others and thinking of having Sex (which is the most likely thing for any man or woman), and its very natural too……..

But there come, our culture, our commitment towards your partner, obligations etc. and very few strong willed woman/man can control themselves from stepping out of their marriages life…….And this can be possible, if you find your partner with similar thoughts and is completely committed to you, then only you can think of not hurting or breaking the trust of your partner…As circumstances might come, where a strong willed married man also get attracted towards  some hot/sexy/innocent women and its natural also, and in a similar way, a strong willed married women also can get attract towards an handsum/hot/magnetic personality man……..and its very natural also,…..but they can only stop themselves, if your faith, trust, love on your partner is strong….they would soon realize and will come back to you….

You know friends, Sex is very natural, some r wild and open minded, they have it like having food daily, and with anyone…..one way they enjoying sex life  to the fullest, which no one else can enjoy…..but in other side of life, they themselves create lots and lost of problems for them…and i am not going to say much about them here…..I am going to tell about the innocent ones, or i would say homely (gharelu) girls, just need one man who would love her emotionally, physically, in all the way….but again they do have lots of desires for Sex (naturally)…

I will give you an example from hindii Movie,”RockStar”  in which the heroin was decent, and was totaly a gharelu girl, but again she wanted to See porn movies ( Jangli Jawani) , she wanted to do Pole Dance (women dances naked)…..so in very nice way, it was shown in the movie, the desires within us………..So Sex, is something, very natural and is common need for everyone……..

Now again, we had seen lots of examples above that Sex is common need for everyone, then why shouldn’t we get stick to one man or woman husband or wife.???? why should we become patiwrata or patniwrata ?????………Then d answer is, as the way,” Ghar Ki Murgi,’ Dal barabar” …..for sometime, you might liking having relation with the other person, and after that when you would spend time (could be an year or two also or more) you would loose interest in them also, and you would think of someone else…..( our self esteem need) and the process will go on, and if you go on switching your partners, you would be creating problems for yourselves…….as you might had heard another phrase,” Jaisi Karni, Waisi Bharni “…..

So, my friends, just be loyal to your partners, coz they r the one who would hold your hand in your bad days too, all other will be with you in your good days only…..In fact, when your days, r good, you might think of stepping out of your marriage life and enjoy sex etc. its just the matter of 1/2 an hour to 2-3 hours…who would know….enjoy it,,,,,but….but…but my friend, when your days r bad, when you really need someone to hold your hand and strength you, it will be none other than your partner…..and the moment they hold, it gives you lots of strength to fight with the world…….

In fact for a man, the moment of ejaculation is the best moment, which relax them, which stabilize them… no matter, how you r doing it….whether you r masturbating or having sex with any simple girl or whether having sex with a extremely hot sexy woman….the best moment is the moment of Ejaculation and nothing else…..rest all things r just brain games…..so no matter with how many women you r  having sex. the best moment is that……So why stepping out of marriage, there is many more things….for everything there is a biological cycle…taking birth, childhood, marriage life, wife, children, mom,dad everyone….for everyone you have some amount of obligations ……….complete them, and see the changes within you…..some day, you- yourselves will conclude your  life and believe  me, you will be feeling amazing !!!

Jindagi- Ek Paheli !!!

 Kahten hein ki kisi chij ke hone mein,

Aur karne mein Kitnaaa farkh hota hein.

Phir chahen wo pyaar hon,shadi ho, bacchen hon..work hon.

 

Kal jab mein juhu beach pe gaya;

Ton eka-ek mujhen ek moortin dikhin (pani mein)… meine socha –

Yeh murat mitti kin bani hein, aur hamara shareer bhi.

Dono hin ensaan ken banayen hein;

Ek hosh mein rahkar, aur ek madhoshi mein;

Joh hosh mein banaya won murat hein,

Aur joh madhoshi mein bana woh insan hein;

Joh hosh mein banaya, woh nirjeev hein,

Aur joh madhoshi mein bana usmen jiwan hein.

 

Kahne ka matlab yeh hein ki, jo chije naturally hoti hein,

ushin mein jaan hoti hein, ras hoti hein,prem hoti hein.

 

Ishen hum un bhi shikh sakten hein;

Harek insaan unique hein;aj tak kisi ki finger print dosren sen match nahin huin.

Har ek mein kuch alag hota hin hein,aur agar hum usken according chelen,in terms of

study,learning,work,love etc.

Toh sab kitne agen badh sakten hein,tarakkin kar sakten hein, khus rah sakten hein.

Ab agar mein shadi kin baat karon, toh hamaren desh mein,

Pyaar karne walon kon, aksar alag kar diya jata hein;

Kabhi samaaj, kabhi ma-baap, kabhi bhai,wagera-wagera.

Ab jab tak shadin aisen logon kin hon,

Joh shayad hin ek doosren kon janten hon,

Toh unken bhich saccha pyaar kaiseh hon payega,

Kaise woh khush rah payenge,

Kaisen unken pyaar sen ek Adutwav bacchen ka janm hoga,

Kunki jahan dampatti ken bhich saccaha pyaar na hon,

Toh mahan atmayen kaisin prawesh karegi,ma ken garbh mein?

 

 

Abh dhayan dene yogyeh yeh hein kin……

Jo hon raha hein, usen hone den, kunki usken hone mein,

Harek zarren ki chahat hoti hein…

Apka janm hona,apka school jana,college jana, naukri karna,wageira-wagira,

kuch na hona bhi, ek hona hein, ushen bhi accept karen….

 

Jab itni si baat agar koi apni jindagi mein utaar len,

Aur harek zarren kon apne ap kon samarpit kare,harek zarren sen shikhen,

Tabhi wah jindagi ke harek lamhen ko jiwant hokar jin sakta hein!