Dress code for women

There had been so much discussions, about the dress code for women, what she should wear clothes as per man’s boundaries? That is right, they should have the freedom to decide their life and if they like to wear short dresses, saree, kurti, coat or any other garment they are comfortable with, let them wear, what’s wrong in that.

But women must know, they should not dress in a way, so that they use their dresses as a tool to attract men, to seduce them and keep them engaged into your social media profile. Use them to increase your followers to excel in career.

Men must understand that, they should not allow women to use them for their benefit by just removing their cloths. Men should learn the skills on how to control their sexual desires. Mind it, I said “control”, I did not say, don’t have it.

Men  don’t be a beast, like street dogs who have it with anyone at anyplace. Rather have it like human beings, in a right way as god made you with the ones you love, whether your girl friend or boy friend or life partner.

I feel it bad, for the women (sex workers) who want to live a better life, but they don’t get a chance in their whole life. As never accepted them. On the other hand there are women who take off their cloths in the name of art, fashion, modern mentality etc. and in turn get lump sum of money, name, fame everything in society.

Both men and women should understand and respect each other’s biological systems and should not use other’s sexual drive to increase their own profit percentage.

 Companies and designers make clothes in a way which can attract men by using their sexual drive. Its completely a winning situation for such women who want to achieve anything at any cost. But by choosing that path, you have created a society where your male counterparts are lame, helpless about their biological systems.
Believe me its not healthy for any society, make men useless and end of the day, you say, “all men are same, they only want sex. But from where this began, can you relate now ?
Do you know, even men can utilize, women’s sexual drive (by following sexy dress code ), to excel in their career. Confused ? Let me explain :  

Suppose if a man start wearing revealing pants like something printed over genitals with words like Strong, Big, Long, Hot, Dick etc. Then when he share photos with such pants on any social media platform, I am sure, it can attract many women followers for him. When he has more followers, he can make huge profit percent.

Then if he decide to go to next level of his profit making business and choose to do a movie. Director shoot him without a pant from back and above him there is an actress making love to him. Obviously that will even make women make more crazy for him in the cities, in villages, across the globe. That boy will become popular, his demand will increase, he can ask any amount of money from his sponsors. But is that right ?

 Don't think that, women won't like that. Yes they will. Because, when few years back jara jara touch me touch me touch me, jara jara kiss me kiss me kiss me, jara jara hold me hold me hold me; song was released, women liked the song very much, because it was telling their side of story, that they want men to hold them, touch them, kiss them etc., proves, they do have sexual drives which can be utilized to pull them to a man’s circle (simply by following sexy dress code).
   How do u feel now, good or bad ?
 Definitely good if you are a women who will use his picks for masturbation or think of him while orgasm.  But, it’s bad for him in case if he thinks to marry an honest girl who saved her love for her husband. Because she may think the kind of work he does, who knows with how many he slept and hence she may think whether he deserve to marry her or not. 

In the same way, generally actress are not accepted as good character girls, in the society. Elders generally don’t prefer to accept them as bahu in any decent family.

That’s why, mostly the business people or the other actor's marry them, as marriage is nothing for them, they believe in enjoying sex with whoever they like without getting into any long term commitment. And that is the main reason their marriage fail very soon.
 It's not only my personal opinion, it's even true with the people who work there in the film industry, Sr. Bacchan did not allow his daughter to work in film industry, Amrish puri once said, Indian women should never work in film industry. Whole lot of women talked about how they were abused sexually in the industry.
 I see almost all the girls there, use wrong way to excel in their career and later many play victim cards. Common you are not a small child, who don’t understand what you are doing and why you are called for work ? Still you go ahead in that path as you only focus on destination instead of its path, how you reach there.

May be they did this because they never thought in this way and may be now they can relate.

People at higher level has greater responsibility on their shoulder, but they got to think, how they can? Only breathing never means life, ask yourself, why are you here on earth? What is the purpose of your life? Are you a victim of system? Or you choose that path willingly ? Why the Dirty Picture girl committed suicide ? I know many dark secrets of many actor, actress in the film industry which I am not mentioning here.

dress code for women

Nakedness is an ultimate truth, we all are born like that, at some level of spiritualism people feel to remove their cloths and want to be naked as the way god made them like Mahaveer etc. But ask yourself, did you do it for spiritualism or you used sex as an instrument to excel in you profit percentage ?

If its for spiritualism then suppose if every women go naked for 2 weeks, men will get to see them as they are, after sometime neither the women would need to hide anything behind the clothes, nor the men would need any cloths to tear to see their bodies.

 Because our bodies are hided in the cloths and manipulatively showed to use sex as an instrument to increase profit percent, today human beings lack to have healthy and divine sex. Rather it has increased the brutal activities like rape etc.

Though its not accepted that a man think/try/touch a women without her will, doesn’t matter what type of dress. Men must learn to control their sexual drive. But at the same time, one can not deny that, those things (wrong dress code) merely spoiled societies, men became sex addicts etc.

Now definitely, I am leaving it to you to think and decide, what I am saying is right or wrong.

Close your eyes, ask your soul, whether you are doing it right or wrong ? If right, continue with what you were doing but if your soul says, you did it wrong, then ask yourself, how will you come out of it to make your existence different? Or else will you choose to follow the crowd? 

I can tell you the way but it’s you, who got to ask yourself : what, why, how, when, kind of questions and get your own answers.

                                                                                                                                                    (This is one of those thoughts which I got when I was traveling from Port Blair to Diglipur in 2017 when I went offline from Facebook for a month without informing those who kept me engaged in Social Media. Do you understand what type of energies/thoughts I get when I don’t allow people to distract me and I get to go deep within me ? )

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